Saturday, December 20, 2008

A good dog

Not the post I want to write...

We were very sad to hear that our dog Rusty died yesterday in Texas. He had only gotten sick a couple of days ago, and we are thankful that he did not suffer long. He was living with our friends, Ron & Mindy, who were so gracious to take care of him while we are living here in Spain.



Rusty was such a good & loyal dog and we have many happy memories of him. (This is us with him last year on Christmas Day - and our other dog, Rosie, in the background.) We got him from the Irving pound when he was 4 months old in July 2000. He was mainly Jason's dog and loved to follow Jason around everywhere, even underfoot if necessary so as not to miss out on whatever Dad was doing. He would lay under Jason's desk for hours, "helping" him work :-). He was so eager to please you and figure out what you wanted him to do, such a nice change from the beagle we had before him :-). He was a cocker/lab mix - his mom was a lab, so that's the only part we know for sure, but the cocker part was pretty obvious. He inherited much of the cocker breed's nervous tendencies and usually found something new to be afraid of on a weekly basis :-). He used to love tearing up "do-to-do's" (the center of a paper towel roll) until one accidentally hit him on the nose and he became mortally afraid of them forevermore. :-) We named him Rusty b/c when his hair would get long, he had brown tints on the edges of his hair. Maybe a little random for a black dog, but that's why :-).

Our hearts are very heavy today b/c we won't get to see Rusty again, but they are mostly heavy for our friends, Ron & Mindy, Andrew & Sara Beth (at left with Rusty this summer). Rusty had become their dog as well, and he loved living at their house. They have squirrels to chase in their backyard, and Mindy took Rusty in the car with her when she went to pick up the kids from school nearly every day. They also took him camping with them several times in their RV. We are so thankful to them for taking care of Rusty so well and giving him such a great last year of life. When we saw Rusty this summer, at first he didn't even recognize us (maybe his eyes were going?), but when he finally smelled us, he went crazy. As the evening wore on though, we were very happy to see that Rusty really wasn't partial to us - he followed them around as much as he followed us. So he truly felt settled in his new home. I know it will be a much harder transition for them as they get used to their house w/o him again.

I think the worst part is that we are now officially dogless... We will miss you, Rusty Roo!

much love,
J/B/K

Friday, December 19, 2008

Getting Ready for Christmas

Let me just start w/ a disclaimer that we're not going to confess how long ago these events took place.... :-) Last week I was pretty busy, but this week Katie has been sick all week so I don't have that excuse... Or maybe that is my new excuse :-)

We had a GREAT long weekend recently getting ready for Christmas. It was nice in a way b/c the Saturday of this long weekend was Spain's Constitution Day. So everything was closed and we had to stay home all day! It was just the ticket to catch up from a busy few weeks since our trip to TX. We started out the fun by making sugar cookies together - our 1st Christmas cookies of the season. It was a rare occasion that we all got to hang out in the kitchen together! :-) I think Katie enjoyed Daddy making cookies more than just Mommy - Daddy encourages a lot more sneaking of cookie dough :-)

The next night we went into downtown Madrid to see the Christmas lights. This was pretty crazy b/c it was really rainy and really cold and there are really a lot of people who wanted to do the same thing! This picture is pretty much what we could see wherever we went: a sea of people and umbrellas! We spent the evening getting pretty damp and trying not to spear people with our umbrellas. Of course, whenever I would peg someone pretty good and would apologize, they would look at me like I was crazy. I guess no one thought any apology was necessary!


This is the tree in the Puerta del Sol (where you might remember the statue of the bear & the strawberry tree is) - it was very cool looking. I think I liked the more colorful tree in the Plaza de Espana though. We have some friends from church who have just moved down into the centro so they took this 2nd pic of us. We also got to go hang out with them and have a coffee - and dry out a bit :-).

A very cool part of the Madrid decorations is their focus on Jesus!! It's really cool to see Him everywhere! One of the most beautiful light displays we saw is in the Puerta de Alcala. This is not my pic, but a pic I found from last year on the internet. It is the whole nativity scene in lights in the 3 openings of the arch. Absolutely beautiful! I've been told that there are also many elaborate nativity scenes downtown. We'll see if we brave the traffic to try to find them or not!

On the holiday Monday, we set off to find our Christmas tree. We traditionally have a real Christmas tree in TX, but here in Spain things are different. They are a bit more environmentally conscious here, so the only real trees I could find were in pots. Now that's fine if you have a garden (i.e. a yard), but since we do not, I had no idea what we would do w/ this tree after Christmas. Now the argument could be made that we have always just thrown out a perfectly fine tree after Christmas... but we won't go there :-). Also given the expense of the real trees, we just decided to buy an artificial one to use while we are in Spain. A bit strange feeling, but OK. We had a nice time putting the branches in according to the alphabetical clues and learning how to string lights that come in a circular strand. We also enjoyed hanging our ornaments from home. We didn't bring most of our Christmas decorations to Spain, but it was nice to make it feel like home w/ the ones we brought! I think it turned out pretty nice!


I think overall my prep for this Christmas season has been characterized by baking. I have noticed that I have far fewer "events" to go to since I'm not involved in as many activities here as I was in TX. (though I did get to go to a very fun party last weekend that was going strong at 1:30 AM when I left!) But I don't even know how many goodies I've baked! It's been fun - and I'm not done yet! :-) I have several more things to make - including a birthday cake for Jesus! Oh and for my daughter as well! :-) Can you believe she'll be 5 (!!) on Tuesday?!

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Santa Lucia

But 1st: A picture of our mountains! We live fairly close to some absolutely gorgeous mountains! Most of the time, you can't see them, but a couple of days recently have been crisp & clear and the mountains have been literally breathtaking. There is snow on the mountains and I don't know if the snow has especially highlighted the whole range, but it seems like we've been able to see more of the mountains than ever before. We really live in a beautiful place with amazing weather. I am especially enjoying it since most of my life has been spent in unattractive TX :-).

Yesterday at Katie's (Scandanavian) school, they celebrated Santa Lucia. Not totally sure who she is (see here: Saint Lucy) but it was fun. :-) My main connection is that this is the celebration where the girls wear the white dresses with a candle wreath on their heads - a bit the stereotypical image of Sweden. I don't know if you can see the girl standing in the front of the group, but that's the image that I recognize! Apparantly they usually do this procession in the dark early in the morning, and one of the Swedish teachers was very put out that we had to do it at 10 in the morning!

Katie did get to wear a white dress and take part in a parade and several songs. I knew they were learning a song in Swedish for the occasion - but she actually learned 5 or 6 songs in Swedish! It was kind of crazy :-). A highlight was the kids singing Silent Night in Swedish, then English, then Spanish! Times like this make me shake my head at the craziness of living in the mix of cultures that we live in :-). Katie looked so cute in her little outfit and really sang along well with all the songs, no matter the language :-).


Here is Katie with her best friends from school: Frida from Denmark, then Katie before she got her glitter on, then Malin from Denmark (Frida's sister), then Ebba from Sweden. As you can see from the kiddos - Katie is attending a school full of very tall, very blond girls and women!

And now at the risk of giving you a stereotypical video of my kid in the school program - here is Katie and the other kids singing her favorite of the songs she learned in Swedish. She is in the middle between the 2 boys w/ the cone hats on (as in the picture above - & just to the left of the girl w/ the red belt on). You can see her nodding her head emphatically as she sings along :-). Enjoy!


Monday, December 8, 2008

Meeting Baby Liam!

I mentioned recently that I have just realized that several things have happened that I have not blogged about. One of these big things was getting to meet my new nephew, Liam! We left TX the week before Liam was born in August, and did not have another trip scheduled to go back. I was afraid that it would be next summer when Liam was nearly a year old before we would get to meet him. This living so far from family can be a bit yucky!





When we decided to come to TX for Vicky's surgery, we only had 1 day that we knew for sure we'd be in the Dallas area. So my brother & sister-in-law drove all the way from Fayetteville to see us that one day! It was such a gift! Fortunately, Mandy's family is in the DFW area too, so they didn't have to just turn around and head home after 1 day :-). This is me holding Liam for the 1st time, trying to hold back the tears of joy for getting to meet him while he is still small! But God knew that he wouldn't be that old when we 1st got to meet him. That is a good description of how our trip was, in fact: God bringing good things out of hard things.


Liam is so adorable and such a happy baby. I know it does not make any difference to him that Aunt Becca got to hold him, but we can show him pictures :-). Tim's been great about posting video and pics on their blog, partly for our benefit, but it was so precious to see his smiles in person!




It was also good for Katie (& us) to see her Casteel cousins and spend the day with them. In the 1st picture is Layton, 2 1/2, Lily, 7, Lacy, 4 1/2, and Katie. It happened to be Halloween, so we also got to go trick-or-treating with them. (Also in the Halloween picture is Rylee, one of Lily & Lacy's cousins on Mandy's side) The time was too short, but it was very sweet.

Friday, December 5, 2008

7 Random Things...

OK - I got tagged by my sister-in-law, Mandy, a (long!!) while ago to do this, but I'll use traveling as my excuse :-). So, finally, here are 7 random things about myself:

1. I absolutely LOVE roller coasters, though sadly it's been awhile since I've ridden one. Probably more than 5 years, actually :-).

2. The only guy I've ever kissed is my hubby (Thank you, Lord!).

3. When I was in 1st & 2nd grade, I lived in the Washington DC area. It was a great experience that I have many happy memories of. My mom likes to say we felt like tourists for 2 years - and there are many parallels between that time in my parents' life and our current adventure here in Spain. I hope that Katie will remember many things from this time of our lives, even though she's a bit younger than I was.

4. The sound of a canary singing is one of the things that gives me the most joy. One of my birthday presents last year from Jason was money to buy a canary here in Spain, but we just travel too much to justify it. And sadly, my record with keeping canaries alive is not too stellar.

5. Fall is my favorite season of the year. I think it has most to do with new pencils and notebooks :-).

6. Sometimes I find myself counting things in my head without realizing it - steps, clock chimes, times I cut a carrot with a knife, etc. I guess I was born to love Math :-).

7. When I was in 4th grade, I & 2 adults sang the lead parts in a Easter musical at our church called Alive Again. At least this is how I remember it - I think I actually only joined them on 1 song and surely there were many more... But still :-). It was a big deal at the time. I got to borrow this beautiful white dress with a fushia sash from an older friend. I truly thought I was glamorous.

OK - so now I tag these friends: Kristi, Jenn, Kelly, Tricia, Mandy M, Karen, Kristin Your turn!

Monday, December 1, 2008

Halloween

As I downloaded the pics this evening for the previous post, it occurs to me that much has happened that I have not blogged about :-). So here is a little snippet from Halloween that I thought you might enjoy. Katie was a Spanish flamenco dancer for Halloween, complete with castanets & "official" shoes. We got to go trick-or-treating with her Casteel cousins - which was truly a treat!




Another update - we are so happy to tell you that Jason's mom is still doing really well! She is healing and regaining her strength, but is in less pain all the time and feeling good. She got her stitches out 10 days ago or so and the dr is just thrilled with how much of her tumor he was able to remove and with how well she's doing. We are so thankful for the amazing things God has done for us!

December 1st

In our family, we are all about traditions, and one of those traditions helps us kick-start the Christmas season. Every year, we exchange December 1st presents - little things that help us decorate or enjoy the month of December a little bit more. I think my mom began this when I was a newlywed as a way to increase my holiday decorations. But now, we just really enjoy it and have no plans to stop! :-) The best is when we can get something at the after-Christmas sales the previous year - my sister-in-law Mandy is especially good at doing this! I highly recommend this tradition - it's a lot of fun! Oh, and Jason would want me to mention that this is a women & children only exchange. :-)

My sweet family did not forget us even though we are in Spain (tho I'm sad to say that I didn't return the favor by remembering to get something for them...). So Katie & I enjoyed opening a little something from Aunt Mandy & Mimi today. Katie got the adorable plate and place mat pictured above from Mimi while my mom gave me some great Christmas soap in a gingerbread container. (the picture above of me was taken by Katie) Aunt Mandy & cousins sent Katie a cute reindeer and some cool foamy Christmas soap that you can play with :-). Mandy sent me some new plastic Christmas glasses - which I love! We already used our new dishes for dinner tonight.

Thank you, Mimi & Aunt Mandy - we feel so loved and Christmas-y today! (as well as enjoying the touch from home!)

Happy December 1st, everyone!

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Feeling Better... and back in Spain

Hey there...

A quick update. The last couple days for Mom have been much better as it relates to pain. She's been resting a bit more and is enjoying less intense pain. I get the feeling that it'll be a mix of good days and harder days with things progressively better for the next couple weeks. Thanks to all of you who've sent her cards and called/emailed or even sent over a meal. Mom and David are overwhelmed with all the love and support!

We left Dallas on Saturday at 1pm and flew to Chicago... arriving in Madrid at 8am today (1am in Dallas!). The flights were fine with some interesting turbulence somewhere over the State of Maine. We also have one of our bags that stayed in Chicago. We hope to see it tomorrow or Tuesday. Otherwise, it was all fine and we are v v glad to be back in our Spanish home. We just discovered that our housekeeper ironed our sheets for the bed. We are spoiled...

Thanks for all your love and prayers for us as we settle back into our regular routine. We are tackling the jetlag and hope to be back on this timezone soon. We'll see!

That's all for now. We'll checkin soon.

Spanish Jason/Becca/Katie

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Home... but please continue to pray...

Hello all,

Mom is home and that is GREAT news.

However... she is having significant pain (headaches) and it´s clear the road to recovery will take some time. Please continue to pray for her pain and recovery. Her pain was intense last night.

At mid-day yesterday, Becca, Katie and I left for Dallas. The primary reason is to provide some peace and quiet for the Hastings household. It´s hard to recover from such a tough surgery with us banging around the house and with me making noise on the phone trying to get work done. (no, I´m not going to mention the screechy bird this time... he´s still on the porch!)

So... we are now in Dallas and I´m at the IBM office trying to catchup on some work. We plan to return to Spain on Saturday mid-day. Arriving early morning to Madrid.

Thanks for your continued prayers and care for my Mom. This is all expected (the pain) and we trust that God will protect her and continue to help her heal.

much love,
Jason
(who is off in a team-room so I can actually get some work done!)

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Home!

Hola,

It´s hard to imagine, but 7 days after all the excitement... Mom is safely home. David too!

The neurosurgeon (his name is Dr. Zerris) met with her this morning, reviewed the MRI´s of his work, and agreed that she´s free to go. Brain surgery and home in 7 days is FAST! The recovery will be a few months for all the internal things to heal... but she´s off to a GREAT start.

She made it here a couple hours ago and is resting and comfortable in a living room chair. The checkout of the hospital and the ride home were, "no biggie". Tonight, we all plan to take it easy and enjoy Becca´s famous BBQ Baked Potato´s. Yum.

Thanks for praying and caring for us all! We´ll update things soon.

Jason

P.S. The dogs were THRILLED to see her and the screechy bird is outside on the porch. He´s currently saying "pretty bird" over and over in an attempt to win his way back into the house. We´ll see. :-)

Coming Home!

Good Morning...

I got a call at 8am this morning from Mom saying she's thinking they will release her today! She saw the Dr. and he's ok with it, apparently. We're a little surprised!

She is still not nearly up to full strength, but we're sure it'll be a boost to be at home and resting with her familiar surroundings. It's exciting that she's coming home!

We are busy here making some preps for her and David to return. Potentially around 1/2pm today? We're not 100% sure exactly when...

Thanks for praying for her and don't stop now! She's going to need to continue gaining strength and taking the proper rest all the while... something that is not easy for any of us to do. :-)

Much love,
Jason

Monday, November 10, 2008

Recovery Day 5

Hello all...

First, thanks a ton for all your comments on the blog. I´ve never put a ¨counter¨ out here to log the number of visitors, but it´s really nice to know that people are seeing it. (We assume it´s well read by the lack of emails and phonecalls from the many, many interested folks who are praying and wondering about Mom.)

David stayed with Mom in her new room last night. She rested well with many fewer interruptions than in the ICU. She had a good day today as well. In fact, she´s trying to kick us all out of her room and back to our regular lives. It´s a good sign! Details below.

I worked from the hotel (mostly deleted email) for a couple hours this morning and when I arrived at her room around 11:30am today, she was finishing lunch and sitting in her chair. She´d taken a shower and had on her own PJ´s instead of the hospital gear. She looks great.

Earlier today, she went for a walk around her hospital floor. While her strength is likely only about 50% of her norm, she felt good and had enough strength to manage it. While she was out, she ran into her neurosurgeon who was coming to pay her a visit. I think he was impressed (and a little surprised) to see her out walking.

In the regular room, there are literally no tubes or things connected to her. Her doc said that at this point, they just want to make sure things are healing well before they send her home. To that point, they did an MRI this afternoon to check and see how things look post-op. This will show them how things are settling back in place. (ok, I made that last part up... but it´s logical right??)


The BEST news of all is that they are thinking of releasing her on Wednesday! It´s not definite, but seems to be a reasonable goal given her progress.


We brought Katie with us today and she enjoyed seeing her ¨Nana¨. She had seen her briefly the day before, but we´re careful to only expose Nana to Katie´s energy in small doses, under the circumstances. They both enjoyed seeing one another. Katie´s eyes BUGGED OUT of her head when she noticed the incision on Mom´s neck/head. We had hoped she wouldn´t notice, but she did! It wasn´t a big deal... we´d told her many times about Nana´s "bump" in her head and that it was being removed. Tonight she told me felt sad that Nana is sick, but was glad to be able to see her today.

Speaking of the incision. It´s a biggie. However, it´s interesting how well the surgeon cut her hair. She has a large spot that was shaved... but he left a large amount of longer hair above the incision that covers all but a couple inches of it. Her hair looks pretty normal (meaning, "good" :-). My sister commented today that if Mom wears a collared shirt, it´d be hard to know that anything happened back there. It´s a nice benefit to not have a crazy haircut coming out of this...

Tonight, we returned to Mom and David´s house. It´s hard for me to work in a hotel room without disturbing Katie and Becca, so being here in the mornings will be good. We also wanted to return here so we could make sure things were in order for her to return. I´ll work some tomorrow morning and then go up to the hospital to see her. It´s about a 50 minute drive each way. David is staying with her again tonight. He´s a real trooper.

Thank you all again for all your prayers and love for Mom and our family. She´s beginning to feel some of the emotions from all this and is sooo thankful for your love for her. Grateful, grateful, grateful. A big, beautiful bouquet of red roses arrived from her office. She loves red roses (hey, who doesn´t?) and is honestly a bit overwhelmed with gratitude to so many of you.

Thanks again for reading what is a bit of a novel tonight. :-)

Jason, Becca and Katie with a bunch of sleeping dogs and one screechy (!!) bird

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Recovery Day 4

Hola,

GREAT day today. We are in the ICU at 4pm as I write this... but they´ve removed all the special monitoring from Mom and we´re moving to a regular room shortly!! It feels like we´re getting a new car or something to be in a quieter place!

Mom´s progress the last couple days has been remarkable. She is eating, sleeping, refusing the strong pain medicine, telling me to go home... the whole shebang. She´s dangerously close to her old self. :-)

Seriously, we´re in great shape here. The neurosurgeon came in this morning and was very happy with how things looked at the incision site and otherwise. They were watching to make sure that no bleeding or leaking (spinal cord fluid) occurred at the back of her head. It looks great. The scar is a big one. It´s like a large backward question mark on her head and neck. If you´re a guy... this would be one you´d love to show off someday.

Well, as I write this, they are here to move her to room 512. Music to our ears! A change of pace! See you later...

Jason

Recovery Day 3

The summary is that Mom is doing well and gaining back her strength. She´s recovering well. Details below.


I spent the night overnight with Mom here in the ICU. We ordered pizza and drank Cokes all night. I wish! I rigged up 2 of the chairs in her room and with 3 blankets and 2 pillows found a comfortable place to “sleep”. If you´d asked me how I slept, I´d say fine… but honestly I feel wiped out today. It was a short night!

However, it was restful and good for Mom. She only had pain medicine a couple times and definitely turned a corner with her strength level. I could give you details of how she´s moving and doing better, but it would be out of context and just wouldn´t mean much to you. Trust me that we´re moving in the right direction on many fronts.


Today has been excellent with continued progress recovering her strength. Jenn and Becca spent the morning/mid-day at the hospital with Mom. Katie and I went swimming in the pool and played some baseball with her Princess bat and ball. (She calls the game “golf” which is quite funny!) Mom´s RN today is very proactive and helped her sit up more than she had been and has her doing other things which are more active and good for her.


David, Paul, Bill and I are here this afternoon. We´re breaking the rule of only 2 people in the room at a time. I´m sitting up on Mom´s bed watching football and we´re all just hanging out. Mom´s feeling good and actually asking to eat some real food. It´s a good sign.


Tonight should be much of the same. Well, we continue to pray for Mom´s recovery and are grateful for all of you praying with us. She is doing exceptionally well. There are a few things that have us concerned, but they are minor.


Thanks for all your love and prayers for her. We are thankful for so many of you and your strong support.

Jason

Friday, November 7, 2008

Recovery Day 2

Well, it's been a fairly uneventful day... which is good.

Paula (her sister) spent the night with Mom. It wasn't as fun as a genuine gals sleepover... but it was great for Dave to have a break and a good nights sleep back in Hutto.

Mom slept pretty well last night and had a restful day today. She took pain medicine less often. She's definitely still hurting a lot, but less than yesterday. We had Mom's neurosurgeon visit today along with a couple other interested doctors. (Mom is a complex and interesting "case".) They all had good things to say about her progress and next steps.

We are still in the ICU because of some special monitoring they have setup... but that might end on Sunday or Monday. We'll see.

In other developments today... I'm glad to report that Katie and Grandpa had a great couple days together. They literally "did it all" and I'm guessing Grandpa is worn out by the exhaustion level of our girl. Katie and one of us will be hanging out at our lovely hotel (which has an indoor pool... a big plus for her) while the other pays visits to my Mom. We expect this to only last a few days while we cook up other plans which will be more fun for Katie. For now, it's really nice for the 3 of us to be together. I missed our busy little girl. She's currently jumping from one bed to the other in our room. Yes... it's fun to be together again!

You know... I'm really out of things to say... it's truly been a quiet day. Please keep praying for Mom to heal safely with less pain and to gain back her energy and strength. She's really doing great... but it's going to be a slow and painful recovery.

much love and happy friday to you,
Jason/Becca/Katie

Thursday, November 6, 2008

First Recovery Day

Mom is doing well today. It’s a painful recovery, but she’s doing great and we’re thankful she’s enduring it well. Several have said she’s doing “better than expected” at this stage. We’re encouraged.

She had short night with the need for more pain medicine hourly. I believe she slept mostly solid from 1am to 4am, which is good. David stayed with her here in the hospital and he rested 4-5 hours too.

At 6am David and I were here for a Dr.’s visit and evaluation of her. The doc is a member of the surgeon’s same neuro practice and he did a bunch of neurological tests with her. Things are working well and we’re thankful.

Her spirits are good and she’s thankful that her 8 member entourage (that's us) is all present and accounted for. We’re taking turns spending time in her room helping her in small ways.

However… it’s been a hard day. Lots of pain this morning, but marked improvement in her pain this afternoon. Still... a long day for her.

Her surgeon and the chief neurosurgeon (who assisted yesterday) came in at 3pm to see her. They are both very happy about how things are going and had more great things to say about her prognosis. There should be no longterm challenges.

For now, we pray that her pain is manageable and that she heals well with no complications. So far, so good. :-) I left a few moments ago and she's fast asleep, which is GREAT. Her sister Paula is staying the night with her while David gets some better rest at home tonight.

Thanks for all your prayers and care for her. We love and appreciate you all v v much.

Jason/Becca +

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Praise God with us!!

Everything went well today. No problems. Mom is resting and sleeping under a blanket of sedatives. We are very relieved and thankful she is ok. Rejoice with us!!! (details below)

Throughout the day, we received hourly updates that she was doing well and the surgery progression was (at times slow but) good.

They called us at about 7:30pm to tell us that the surgery was a success and that they would begin the process of closing things up. We didn’t expect to hear this until 10pm, so it was encouraging to hear that the work progressed well and faster than they expected.

Her surgeon met with us at 10pm and was clearly exhausted but very pleased by how things went. Her recovery should be 100%! We are thrilled!! He said, “It was near perfect. Could not have been better.” He was able to get 95% of the tumor and described that it was fully removed from all the important areas. The day matched EXACTLY his best case for Mom. WOW. Post-op, all the tests they did on her were excellent. (wiggling toes on command, thumbs up on the proper hand, etc.)

She has a day of sleep ahead of her and several days of intense pain. In the next few days, we expect her to be hurting and sore… so please keep praying for her to recovery normally with no infections and a minimum of pain, no neurological issues, etc.

As you might imagine, we’re VERY THANKFUL that this risky operation has gone well. God has truly been gracious and shown us… yet again… that He can be trusted. We knew it and we’ve seen it time and time again. (Even when things don’t go according to “our” plan.) We do trust Him and thank you all for praying, encouraging and loving on us through this process.

Your encouraging words and expressions of love and care have helped us greatly.

Thanks and much love to you all,
Jason/Becca, Jenn, Dave, Paula & Bill, Tom and Rich (Dave's brothers)

Quick Update

Hello all,

Mom rested well last night and Becca and I went over to the hospital at 5am this morning. They moved her to the prep area and everything went ok. She felt reasonably well, with some nausea and headaches that kept her from feeling 100%.

We had a great group of visitors (10 in all) and the hospital agreed to build us our own waiting area next time. :-) Seriously, her pastor came up from Georgetown and prayed with us and the surgeon. It was really special. Her nurse (Gloria) is a wonderful lady and she had a hand on Mom as we prayed for her. Really neat.

They took her back at about 8am-ish and were going to run one more test before they began the surgery. She was calm and glad to be going back to get this "show on the road".

We're thankful for all your love and prayers. We can really feel them. It's 10am here and I'm back in the hotel for a few moments (a shower!) and then will head back over to the hospital.

will update when we can...
keep praying...
much love...
Jason

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Update on Jason’s Mom

Today has gone well with my Mom. The procedure was a success. Details below.

She had a difficult night last night and didn’t sleep much. Not the start she was hoping for, but we made it here regardless.

We arrived at the hospital at 7:30am and spent a couple hours getting settled and prepped. They took her back at 10:30am and the logistics were perfect. No issues. The people at this hospital are SUPER NICE. Everyone seems glad to see Mom and they are v v kind. It’s wonderful to be around people that are so caring. It’s cold in this place (typical hospital) but otherwise things are good. They even brew Starbucks Verona coffee (my favorite) in the café downstairs. :-)

We spent some time praying together (Mom and her husband David, my sister, Jenn, and Becca). Things were peaceful this morning and we’re all doing ok. We can certainly tell that so many of you are praying for us. I woke up this morning thinking it was likely over 100 people praying today and tomorrow. Thanks for that. We can feel it.

They finished the procedure at 1pm and her surgeon said it went well and as expected. They were able to block several of the arteries feeding the tumor and had no complications. We are encouraged and pleased with how things went. This will reduce the bleeding tomorrow for the big operation and make things clearer and easier for the surgeons to remove the tumor safely.

David paid a visit to her at about 2:30pm while she was in recovery. From recovery, she had an MRI. They completed the test, but it was difficult due to some nausea from the surgery. We are glad they completed it as it will give the surgeons current pictures to work from during the surgery tomorrow.

Mom made it to her room at about 7pm tonight. She was exhausted and had a really good headache. David and I happened to be back in ICU at that time talking with the RN, so we met her at the door and got her all fixed up with pain medicine, blankets and some extra love. :-) Her sister Paula and her husband Bill paid a visit to her room, as did Becca, Jenn & David’s 2 brothers who are here from Nebraska. (Yes, we broke all the rules of ICU tonight!) She’s loved up for sure.

We were hoping today would be a little easier than it was… but the great news is that they completed all the work and now she can get some rest.

We are in a nice hotel across the street and are nearby for the early start tomorrow… or any complications that happen tonight. None are expected. It’s 8pm right now and we’ll go back over in 45 minutes to say goodnight… then return at about 6am tomorrow.

The schedule for tomorrow is that they’ll take her at about 8am. They plan to begin the surgery at 9:30 or 10am. The hope is to complete it before midnight. Thanks for all your prayers for her and us.

Much love and thanks for your prayers. We appreciate you all…

Jason/Becca
with Jenn & David

P.S. We have no internet access at the hospital, so it’ll be hard to make another update until late, late tomorrow. We will try to find a way to make an update in the mid-afternoon if at all possible.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Jason´s Mom - Vicky Hastings


Hello all...

As some of you know, my Mom is ill and having surgery this coming week for a brain tumor that was discovered in late August. We have been on a bit of a roller coaster over the last couple weeks as the doctors work to understand exactly what is going on in her body. Mom had breast cancer in 1998 and a recent blood test has shown that cancer has returned. The specific location and nature of the cancer wasn´t identified by further tests. Initially, it was thought that her brain tumor was cancer, but her latest visit to the neurosurgeon has us [relatively] convinced that the tumor is benign. We can´t be 100% sure until they do a biopsy. So... we´re encouraged that things in the brain are better than originally thought. As for the (new?) cancer, that will be explored further after she clears the hurdle of brain surgery this week.

We are in Austin, TX and will be here for the next 2 weeks.

The schedule is essentially this:

Monday, fun day. Going to a park here in Austin. :-)

Tuesday, admission to the hospital with a minor surgery. They will do a 4 hour procedure on Mom to block the blood flow of the tumor. It´s a pretty straightforward procedure, but does have some risks that it could cause a stroke or some other complications. It´s expected to go fine.

Wednesday, the big surgery. They will do the work from about 9am until (no kidding) midnight. It´s expected to be about a 12/15 hour surgery. It pains me to say that this is the most difficult surgery in the Neuro field. The location of the tumor is problematic and the risks on this surgery are v v high. I could give you the stats, but they are hard to read. It´s a tough one.

Thursday, ICU with Mom kept sedated all day (we think).

Friday, ICU expected... the recovery begins.

Sat/Sun/Mon, we´ll just see how it´s going.

How you can pray:
1) For Tuesday. For peace and confidence. For the details of the day to go smoothly. The coordination of all this by the hospital is complex and gaps seem to exist in their planning. This creates unneeded stress for Mom and us. It´d be so nice if things just went smoothly.

2) Wednesday is really a big day. For all things mentioned above... plus... wisdom for the surgeons doing the work. That they are able to remove most of the tumor without damaging other things. That we would be ok waiting during the surgery. We´ll get 3 or 4 updates throughout the day from the OR.

3) Well... there are lots of other details... but the things above are the most critical. I´m sure we´ll have more details as things unfold.

Thanks for praying for us and her. I hope to be able to make some additional updates as things unfold. I´m not thinking the hospital will have internet access... but we are staying in a hotel across the street and should be able to make updates at least nightly.

Hopeful,
Jason/Becca/Katie

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

A fun week with friends!

What a fun week we had 2 weeks ago! As they say, "when it rains, it pours" and so it was last week with fun company! :-) (and BTW, sorry to be so slow in posting... technical difficulties, sinus infections, trip to TX have been keeping me from finishing this post I began several days ago!)

First we had a visit from our friends from high school, Jacqui & Allen. Jacqui & I were in each other's weddings and I think we´ve known each other since we were in 4th grade! We were laughing because, although they live in Houston, we only made it down to see them once and they never made it up to see us in Dallas. But we got to see them in Madrid!! (how much more fun than either Houston or Dallas?!?) Allen comes to Madrid frequently for business, so Jacqui got to tag along this time. They came over to our house for lunch Sunday (where I managed to forgeFirst we saw our friends from hight to take any pictures at all!) and then Jacqui & I ran around Madrid on Monday while the guys worked. We went downtown to see the Oso y El Madrono (the bear) in the Puerta del Sol and then walked over to the Plaza Mayor. We wanted to go see the Royal Palace, but we didn't have enough time to wait in the line before I had to go pick Katie up from school. So instead, we went into the Catedral de la Almudena that is just across the courtyard from the palace. We had never been in it before, so it was fun to see it. The stained glass and other decorations were very colorful and modern - very different than most of the churches we've seen. We enjoyed the view of Madrid from the top of the Cathedral and got to see a nice view of the Royal Palace & its courtyard. (this last picture) This cathedral is rather new, but there was a royal wedding there not too long ago so that raised its stature :-)



Then on Tuesday, my friend, Tracy came for a visit! We have had this on the calendar since we moved to Madrid, and I still can't really believe her visit has come and gone. But it was such a sweet time to show her our world and to have lots of girl time! Sadly, I just realized that all of the pics of us in Madrid are on her camera... so I guess you'll just have to imagine us :-). We enjoyed a slow day on Tuesday with the highlight being a visit to our local grocery store :-). And yes, she did enjoy it! :-) Then Wednesday we went downtown to see the Puerta del Sol and the Plaza Mayor. We also got to eat lunch in the beautiful Parque Retiro next to the lake. (I'll really have to post pics later...)

Then on Thursday, Tracy & I headed off to London! It was really a treat. We started off by seeing the Lion King at the theatre. It was amazing! Some very creative person came up with some really wonderful costumes to makes humans look just like animals! We were really impressed and know that our kids would have loved it (though with all the scary hyenas, Katie will have to wait a few years!)

Then Friday morning we set off to see Buckingham Palace. Our hotel was in a GREAT location, within easy walking distance to most of what we wanted to see. (this benefit made up for its lack of cleanliness!) It was really cool to see where the Queen lives. We did not get to see the changing of the guard because they don´t do that every day during the non-summer months. (Coincidentally, Jacqui & Allen were also in London while we were there and they got to see the changing of the guard on Saturday!) We did get to see some of the guards with their funny hats - and they marched around a little bit for us :-)

Then we headed off for Westminster Abbey. It is really difficult to describe our experience there. It was truly unforgettable. I have not been in a church in Europe that so clearly glorifies God in all they do. True, there are many monuments to many famous people, both kings and queens and other notables, but the focus is on God throughout the Abbey. They pause to pray - out loud! - every hour and we were moved to hear them praying for our US elections among other concerns in the world. It was amazing to realize that it is not just Christians and people in the US who are praying for God´s hand on our country, but Christians all around the world. Several times in the audio guide, they played various hymns praising God. It was very moving to hear that glorious music in such a glorious place. It was just amazing how they make sure to remind people of their primary goal: yes, they are a major tourist attraction, but their goal is to worship and glorify God. It was way cool. We also had the privilege to attend a Communion service in the Abbey. I don´t know that I can express how meaningful it was to share in that experience. Growing up in a Bible church, only recently have I learned more about the great traditions of our faith in the liturgical calendar and prayers. We have such a rich heritage of faith to draw on!

After collecting ourselves from our emotional experience, we then went to see Big Ben and the Houses of Parliament. They are beautiful! Huge and majestic!









Our last destination of the day was to see the Tower of London. We had been told by the receptionist at our hotel that we shouldn´t take the metro anywhere, that we could easily walk to all the places where we wanted to go. So we looked on the map and set out to go to London Bridge, where the Tower of London is. Except that we were a bit mistaken... the Tower of London is not exactly at London Bridge - it is quite a bit farther! After walking briskly for 30 minutes, we saw a sign saying it was 25 more minutes to get to the Tower of London - but at that point we were too stubborn to quit our quest! :-) So yes, we walked a whole hour to get to the Tower of London! Tracy even wore holes in her brand new socks b/c we walked so much! Ah, dedication :-) Once we got there, we really enjoyed our visit. :-) The Tower of London was very interesting: it used to be a royal residence, a prison, site of many executions, the royal zoo - it has a very interesting history! We really enjoyed learning about the history of the Tower. It is also the current location of the Crown Jewels. They were really beautiful. One royal scepter has a 500+ carat diamond in it! Quite sparkly :-) They also had the royal crowns and other amazing jewels. They had a movie of the Queen's coronation playing in the entry rooms, so it was very cool to see the Queen use these jewels and then get to see them in person. And yes, we decided to take the metro back to the hotel :-).

To top off our amazing visit, we got to go shopping on Saturday. What a treat! It was a really cool trip :-) We are soooo grateful to our wonderful husbands for enabling all this fun :-)

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Ladies to London!

Hola,

After a great night out to our favorite restaurant in Madrid... Tracy and Becca are headed for London for a couple days. They are leaving on Thursday morning and returning to our Spanish home on Sat night late.

Yesterday while Katie and I went to school & work... they toured around the city center and shopped. I'm sure Becca will post more on it later.

It's great fun having Tracy here! We're enjoying showing her our world in Spain. :-)

I'm taking Thurs/Friday off... so Katie and I have big plans. We are headed to Segovia to see her favorite castle. :-) Tomorrow, we'll likely see the zoo and go to a little friends 5 year old birthday party. Big fun! We're not sure what we'll do on Saturday yet...

Hope you all are well. Thanks for praying with me for a fun and safe "girl time" for B&T in London. I'm green with envy... but am thinking of a fun guys trip... perhaps golfing in Ireland??? Anyone want to come??

Jason & Katie

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Tracy arrives in Spain!



Hola from Spain,

Becca called earlier today sounding giddy... hooray... it´s true... our friend Tracy has arrived safely from Dallas. I´m looking forward to the end of the workday so I can see her too. :-)

Thx to all of you who prayed for her safe arrival. She made it!

Jason

Here are a couple pics of Katie from July for your enjoyment. Clowning around in my office.

Sunday, September 28, 2008

A Wow weekend!

For the most part, life here in Spain is fairly normal. For my part, I go to the grocery store, cook meals, pick up around the house, take Katie to & from school, etc. The same sort of things I did in Texas. Often life here is even difficult as we still adjust to living in a foreign culture (though thankfully this is much less true than it used to be!). This is why you don't hear much from me: normal is not necessarily newsworthy :-)

But then there are times like this weekend and all I can say is WOW!! How could these adventures all be really happening, and on the spur of the moment besides?!?

I mentioned last week that we were headed to Milan for the weekend to join Jason on a business trip. We were excited to go b/c it is northern Italy after all, and seemed exciting. Well, when I looked at the guide book to see what we should do there - and yes, this was after I'd already made the plane reservations - it just didn't seem like there was that much to do in Milan. Milan is full of fashion and business, neither of which interest me all that much :-). And we were going from Wed to Sun so we'd be there awhile. Also, after 2 weekends of touring museums and beautiful churches, we were kind of museum & churched out. Now when Katie hears that we're going to visit a new city, she says, "Are we going to see a beautiful, old church there?" :-) But I figured how could northern Italy be bad - at least we were looking forward to some really good food :-).

Well, sure enough, we toured around Milan on Thursday and saw all we needed to see of Milan :-). It was nice, but we saw it all - and we mostly ate our way around the city on Thursday. :-) (and yes, their beautiful old church, the Duomo, is beautiful) We saw on the map that Lake Como & the Swiss border are not very far from Milan, and an easy train ride away. So we planned to do that for 1 of our remaining days, but weren't sure what we were going to do the other day. The other cities of interest in Italy are at least 3 hours away from Milan, so it just didn't seem feasible to go to Venice or Florence or Pisa.

But Friday morning we get up and Jason says, "Why don't we just go to Venice?" Well, why not indeed. :-) So in the space of a couple of hours Friday morning, we called and found a hotel to stay in, packed up our stuff, checked out of the Milan hotel, and navigated our way onto the proper metro and trains to get ourselves to Venice :-). It was a bit crazy. Rich, Katie & I went on ahead and Jason joined us after he finished work on Friday night. I didn't really get excited until we were on the train b/c it just didn't seem like it was all really going to work out.

Jason & I were talking: I'm not sure that Venice has been on our short list of places we have to see before we leave Europe. (that we haven't actually made such a list is one of the problems, I think :-) ) So, for me, it made it even more amazing that it just worked out for us to go there. It is truly one of the most remarkable & unique cities in the world and once we were there it was truly overwhelming. As we pulled into the Venice train station, I was reminding Katie of a time we joined Jason on a business trip to Vegas when she was 2 and we stayed in the Venetian hotel. I was just trying to help her understand what we were going to see by telling her of the fake canals and gondoliers inside the hotel. I couldn't even finish talking about it b/c I almost started crying out of amazement that we were actually there in the real place!

I don't even really know what else to say about Venice. It is just truly a magical place. There are no cars on the island - only little bitty narrow streets to walk on (lots and lots of walking :-) ) intersected with river roads throughout. The main "street" that snakes around the islands is called the Grand Canal (at far left) and it was so cool. The taxis are boats, the buses are boats (you can see one of these with the red seats in the front on the left side of the picture of the Grand Canal), the police "cars" are boats. I even saw several trash truck boats :-). It is unlike anything else I've ever seen!

The main square is called Piazza San Marco and it was beautiful. We did not go in the church, but we did go up in the tower across the square to get a beautiful birds-eye view of Venice. BTW this is Katie's favorite mode of taking pics these days - she wants every picture to be a "silly face" picture. Oh, and there were SO MANY PEOPLE in Venice! It was by far the busiest place we've visited!!







One of Katie's highlights was getting to ride in a real gondola. She was soooo excited! (I think the look on her face says it all!) We had told her that we were going to ride in a "beautiful boat" before we left, so she asked about it constantly. (The other pic is with another gondolier who was kind enough to have his picture made with her.) It was really a surreal experience and so hard to believe that we were really in a gondola rowing through the canals of Venice. What an experience! Sadly, we heard no singing gondoliers in Venice, though we did catch one bearing an accordion player that was quite nice to see.

To cap it all off, Grandpa watched Katie for us last night and Jason & I got to go out to eat by ourselves - in Venice!! It was a very special evening to finish up a weekend I will never forget.

We are truly blown away by the opportunity we have to experience Europe like we are getting the chance to experience it. We are so thankful for the chance we have been given to live here! Words fail me :-)